Okay, the first one I would have found questionable, but the second would have been fine — from a guy at least. (KIDDING! About the guy part…I would have been fine with it period.) I’ll grant you that #3 wins. :-D

What scares me is how you’ll see two people here comment on each other’s stuff a lot and be all friendly for months, and then jump down each other’s throat over what is often just a misunderstanding. I try to consider the history and cut people some slack with or without those visual cues, because you’re right — you never know…

So all that said, I did come up with a single suggestion: “A conversation with my husband” from Deb! Maybe even one of the same conversations, from the other side of the table!